"what bothers you the most"

The thing that bothered me the most so far in the book is that the citizens of the One State dont get to have families. They dont get to live with the people they love, they get their children taken away. Family is very importent to me and the idea of not being able to see my mom...not even knowing her, that would kill me. Not knowing who your siblings are, or even if you have any. I dont think I would handle it well. The concept of not having a family to fall back on when times are hard bothers me.